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Right, let's talk about something nobody wants to do in a second language, apologising.
When you argue with your Dutch partner in Dutch, everything feels bigger, rawer.
You're already working harder to find words, your emotions are running high, and then when
it's over, when the silence sets in, you have this choice.
Do I say sorry in English, where I know exactly how it will land, or do I stay in Dutch,